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HAND LogoHAND is a resource network of parents, professionals, and supportive volunteers that offers a variety of services throughout Northern California and the Central Valley. There are no fees for our services. HAND relies entirely on donations to support its programs. More...

  2017 Service of Remembrance - October 1, 2017  

HAND would like to invite you to come together with other families and celebrate the memories of your precious babies.

Sunday, October 1, 2017 ~ 1:00pm - 3:00pm
Quinlan Community Center - Cupertino Room
10185 N. Stelling Rd., Cupertino, CA 95014

The service will have music, poetry readings, and a potluck meal afterward where you can reconnect with old friends or make new ones with families who have experienced the loss of a baby. Families and friends are welcome to attend this memorial celebration.

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  2016 Annual Letter  

“You were carried for only a moment, but you are loved for a lifetime”

- Author Unknown

Helping After Neonatal Death is closing its 32nd year providing grief support services to families who have lost a child before, during, or shortly after birth. HAND is run exclusively by volunteers – all bereaved parents – in Northern California and the Central Valley. HAND relies entirely on your support, so grieving parents can receive our services for free.

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We are so sorry that your precious baby died. As parents, we do not expect to outlive our children. The death of a child robs us of a lifetime of enjoying a unique and irreplaceable piece of ourselves. More...

Family & Friends

The English terms sympathy and compassion go back to Greek and Latin words, respectively, which originally referred to a "common feeling," something "felt together." More...

Health Care Professionals

As a caregiver, you are in a unique position to provide a level of care and sensitivity that can greatly affect the course of a family's grieving process. More...

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quilt square 3Each quilt square memorializes an individual child, but the quilts, as a whole, serve to bring awareness of Pregnancy and Infant Loss to the public. Learn more...

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