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For Parents

No two people experience such a loss in the same way. Our losses and circumstances differ. And yet, we have much in common.

Dear Parents

For Family & Friends

For those who wish to provide true comfort to friends or relatives who have lost a baby or a pregnancy.

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For Care Providers

 As a caregiver, you provide a level of care and sensitivity that can greatly affect the course of a family’s grieving process.

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1 week ago

Helping After Neonatal Death (HAND)

A beautiful message to those families who hold babies in their hearts, tomorrow and always.

Will you be sharing your Thanksgiving table with a newly bereaved parent this year? Your instinct might be to avoid the topic of loss. Please consider (gently, perhaps privately) acknowledging their child(ren)’s absence at the gathering. Make room for them to grieve yet another facet of their loss, and yet still hold dear the blessed memories for which they are grateful.Be gentle with yourselves this week, courageous mamas.
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4 weeks ago

Helping After Neonatal Death (HAND)

We grieve deeply because we love deeply.Just came across this amazing blog from Jamie Anderson with these incredible words: allmylooseends.com/2014/03/lights-wink/ ... See MoreSee Less

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